Sat, 26 May 2012 21:31:39 -0800WeeblyWed, 18 Apr 2012 11:18:48 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2012/04/imitation.html I am often approached by parents sharing the news that their child pretended to be me. I am sure this happens to my fellow teachers as well. I know you’re familiar with the expression “imitation is the sincerest form of flattery.” To the child, imitation means so much more. In fact, Maria Montessori believed,   “imitation is the first instinct of the awakening mind.” Imitation is the way in which the child develops. It is the driving force of how a child learns. Dr. Montessori understood this driving force and created the perfect environment to encourage and foster it. Imitation plays a big part in the introduction of our lessons. We are aware of our movements and take care to be specific with them. The child’s inner need to imitate does not stop in the classroom but is present every second of every day.  Even as you sit at home your child observes how you and your spouse speak and interact with one another. How you greet others in public is equally important. This, and so much more, is always being observed under the watchful eyes of your child. We must always be aware of what we say and do even on our not so pleasant days. Let us give positive images and examples to encourage positive behavior and interaction with others at all times.

Enjoy every moment,

Miss Neicy

]]>Fri, 30 Mar 2012 10:10:33 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2012/03/teaching-the-children-about-healthy-snacks.htmlOur topic for this month "Favorite Book and Healthy Snack" was a great success. The books were very enjoyable and entertaining. The delicious snacks provided a wonderful way to continue our lesson about the human body. Last month the children learned about the body and how it functions. Serving healthy snacks gave us the opportunity to teach nutrition for the body. The children were able to see how healthy foods such as fruits and vegetables contribute vitamins and minerals to the body. Explaining the value of good nutrition to children help them to understand the importance of good health. Hopefully this understanding will last a lifetime. Thank you very much for helping us teach a delicious lesson!

Enjoy every moment,

Miss Neicy

]]>Mon, 30 Jan 2012 07:55:24 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2012/01/post-title-click-and-type-to-edit.htmlLast month’s topic,  Dinosaurs, was very fun and exciting for the students and teachers too! The  children were introduced to many new words and were able to apply these words to  past and current events and everyday experiences. For example, the word extinct  started an interesting dialogue about some of today’s animals that are faced  with the threat of extinction. The children’s awareness that these animals could  become extinct brought on many questions. This, in turn, started discussions  about the rain forest, polar caps and animal shelters. The words herbivore,  carnivore and omnivore created interest and discussions on the choice of diets.  I am always excited by lessons inside of lessons. This is a great way to help
children understand their world and it gives them the opportunity to explore
their similarities and celebrate their differences. I encourage you to keep the dialogue going. After all,  lessons never really end.
 
Enjoy every moment,

Miss Neicy


 ]]>Mon, 09 May 2011 10:48:19 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2011/05/childrens-insight.html In all my years of teaching, I am still amazed at the insight that children possess.  Today I read a book, adapted from a true story, titled “Little Beauty”.  It is a story of the unlikely friendship between a gorilla and kitten.  After the story, the children were asked, “How did the story make you feel?”  The responses varied and included “it made me feel good,”  “happy,” and “it made me smile.”

One child’s response in particular stood out.  He said, “It made me still”.  The children and I became quiet after this response.  We understood the word “still” to mean quiet, peaceful.   Children are truly amazing with the things they say and feel when given a chance.

           So, the next time you pick up your child from school ask him or her what they talked about that day.  After you’ve read a book, ask about his or her thoughts on the characters in the story and really listen to the answers, you might be amazed with the response.

Enjoy every moment!

Miss Neicy

]]>Thu, 24 Feb 2011 14:28:48 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2011/02/whats-miss-rita-day.html Today as I was leaving school I overheard one of our students say to his Mom, “Today was Miss Rita Day!”  He was so excited to share this information. This new addition to our curriculum, Miss Rita’s weekly enrichment activities, has exceeded our expectations.  For those not familiar with this special day, it is a day each class has a scheduled visit with Miss Rita. She reads books, sings songs and engages the classes in crafts projects and dancing.  On some days there may be a chance to act out the characters to the books and songs. The children enjoy this time because it offers them the opportunity to experience creative artwork and music as a group. The fun is endless! So the next time you hear about “Miss Rita Day”, be sure to ask your child about what they did and whether they had fun. I know they will give it two thumbs up!

Enjoy every moment!
Miss Neicy

]]>Thu, 24 Feb 2011 14:26:26 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2011/02/grades-success-tiger-mothers-by-marc-seldon-the-center-for-guided-montessori-studies.html(NOTE: ARTICLE REPRINTED WITH PERMISSION.  ORIGINAL LINK HERE:  http://www.guidedstudies.com/blog/?p=10)

Once we have accepted and established our principles, the abolition of prizes and external forms of punishment will follow naturally. Man, disciplined through liberty, begins to desire the true and only prize which will never belittle or disappoint him,- the birth of human power and liberty within that inner life of his from which his activities must spring.” – Dr. Maria Montessori
My System of Education

On January 8th, 2011 The Wall Street Journal published an upsetting article by author Amy Chua titled “Why Chinese Mothers Are Superior”. An excerpt from her new book, the article claims that the secret to academic success is tyrannical control over the child. Ms. Chua proudly explains that her two daughters were never allowed to have play dates, choose their own extracurricular activities, or receive any grade other than an A.

Furthermore, she explains what she calls her “Chinese” negative motivation technique – insulting her children by calling them “garbage” and threatening them with the loss of meals, presents, toys and birthday parties. Ms. Chua says, “the solution to substandard performance is always to excoriate, punish and shame the child.” In one particularly abusive example, she recounts denying her daughter the right to eat or use the bathroom for hours until she mastered a piano piece.

Ms. Chua calls this technique of parenting through physical and emotional domination the “Chinese mother” style. In recent television appearances she has defiantly shown an appalling lack of self awareness of the cruelty she has wrought on her children. She will, she says, leave it for “Western” mothers to raise the “losers”.

The invidious stereotypes of Ms. Chua’s article have caused some controversy to be sure. Like many others, I can say that her characterization of Asian families is certainly not backed up in my experience – and I’m married into one. I suspect that Ms. Chua has rationalized her abusive behavior by cloaking it in the generalization that she is, somehow, normal.

Ah, but only if she were that rare! There are many parents of all ethnicities who think any behavior should be excused in the name of raising grades. Children hate working, goes the thinking, therefore the only way to get them to excel is to subjugate their will to their wiser elders.

As Montessorians, we know that cultivating intrinsic motivation is the most effective way to increase the productivity of both children and adults. Ms. Chua was correct in that she could, for a time, force her children to do better in school by dominating and emotionally abusing them. But in her memoir, Ms. Chua herself recounts the dramatic rebellion of her younger daughter.

But perhaps the weakest element of Amy Chua’s reasoning is the assumption that grades will themselves lead to success in life. Even many of the arguments made against her accept the axiom that a high GPA promises wealth, prosperity and happiness. In fact, this is not the case. The tragedy is that she traumatized her daughters for nothing.

What is success? If measured by income, grades at best weakly correlate with success. Persons who get A’s and B’s generally earn a bit more over their lifetimes than those who received C’s and D’s in high school and college. On the other hand, many studies paint a very different picture. For example, a longitudinal study of valedictorians show that they are no more – and perhaps less – likely than their peers to be successful in any measureable way. This study was described by Sheila Tobias as “An important corrective to the notion that success in high school inevitably prefigures success in college, in life, or in careers.” Another study of success by Richard St. John also concluded that grading does not lead to success and identified 8 traits that were strongly correlated.

“ Learning is a result of listening, which in turn leads to even better listening and attentiveness to the other person. In other words, to learn from the child, we must have empathy, and empathy grows as we learn. ” – Dr. Alice Miller In other words, good grades mean something but not a lot. Richard Branson, Thomas Edison and Isaac Newton were all undistinguished students, and Winston Churchill failed the sixth grade. Both Charles Darwin and Carl Jung were called “stupid” by their teachers, and Louis Pasteur was near the bottom of his class in college. Leo Tolstoy flunked right out. Werner Von Braun failed algebra and Louisa May Alcott was told she would never succeed as a writer.

Academic success is at best an imperfect predictor of success if measured by either income or notoriety.

So, what is the best predictor of success? New York Times science writer Daniel Goleman makes a convincing argument for emotional intelligence (EI) – the ability to understand and cooperate well with other human beings. In a study of the outcomes of students who attended Harvard in the 1940s, Goleman found that those “with the highest test scores in college were not particularly successful compared to their lower-scoring peers in terms of salary, productivity or status in their field, nor did they have the greatest life satisfaction, nor the most happiness with friendships, family and romantic relationships."

On the other hand, Goleman identified a clear connection between emotional intelligence and every other measure of success that he measured. People with a high EI are the ones “who truly succeed in work as well as play, building flourishing careers and lasting, meaningful relationships.” Is it a coincidence that peaceful, cooperative work is at the heart of the Montessori method, rather than grades? Once again, modern science catches up with Dr. Montessori’s prescience.

Certainly doing well in school doesn’t necessitate the abandonment of individuality, nor does it follow that if you receive good marks in school that you must be an unoriginal thinker.

But three things are readily apparent:

• The traditional school system rewards rote memorization more than creativity, yet the workplace requires creativity more often than rote memorization.
• The traditional school system pits students against each other in class rankings and measures each child’s work in isolation, yet it is success in navigating the dynamics of group projects that plays a more essential role in the modern workplace.
• By pressuring a child to do better in school, a parent also pressures a child to become that thing which the school most rewards – a rote memorizer pitted against other rote memorizers.
  
  Integral to the Montessori method is respect for the child. The child is neither a tabula rasa, nor a willful opponent, but a unique and marvelous creation. Dr. Montessori built her method on the bedrock of mutual understanding, cooperative projects and conflict resolution. We hold in our hearts the faith that a more peaceful and joyful world is found in the secrets of childhood Dr. Montessori studied a century ago.
  

Science now suggests that the very same method could unlock a more productive and wealthier world as well. In economically uncertain times, what are our leaders waiting for?

Thoughts for the day:

If there is so much evidence that grades don’t matter, why are they still used for assessment?

• What role does assessment and progress reports play in a Montessori environment? How do you personally support children’s natural motivation to learn without imposing predetermined goals and standards?
• In Montessori we consider observation to be our main method of assessment. What systems have you put in place to help you perform this most important part of our job?
• How can you use authentic Montessori assessment strategies to support the needs and interests of your students, while respecting each individual’s creativity and unique learning style?
• How can you help your parents better understand the importance of intrinsic motivation? Will this help you to strengthen the partnership between school and home?

]]>Wed, 20 Oct 2010 16:13:37 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2010/10/ways-to-show-praise.htmlWays To Show Praise

Children benefit when they are given praise and positive feedback for certain behaviors.  While there are many types of praise and different times that feedback may be given, it is important not to overdo the praise and to provide it at appropriate times.

We have found that one of the best times to praise a child is when he or she least expects it.  Praise when a child does not expect it is like receiving a heartfelt good morning from a perfect stranger. It’s a surprise, but it feels good! Unexpected praises not only encourage a child to follow directions, and to be helpful and courteous, but they also instill in the child a sense of doing the right thing because that is what is supposed to be done.  For example, if a child notices another child having difficulty saying good bye to his mother, the child may go over to the sad child and invite him to play. This would be a wonderful time to praise the first child on how nice it was for him to help a friend feel better.

A praise can also be used during those special moments for children who may have difficult times following specific directions. An example of this would be for a child who consistently runs in the classroom even after being reminded not to. If the teacher notices the child walking one day on his own with no reminders, that would be a good time to say “I like the way you walked across the room!”  At home, if a parent notices a child putting away his toys without being asked, that would be a good time to say, “you did a good job putting away your toys today.  Thank you.”

Children who handle a problem together nicely would love to hear, “I am so proud of the way you both worked it out!”  This type of praise is very helpful in developing communication skills with friends. The praises mentioned may seem small, but to a child it’s a very big step toward being the best person he can be.



Enjoy every moment!

]]>Mon, 11 Oct 2010 06:07:34 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2010/10/consistent-instructions.htmlTell your child to “HAVE FUN!” at school!

School can be an exciting time for children. However, it can also be a confusing time if the child’s parents and teacher give different instructions for the day.

Parents, you are your child’s first teacher. You experience their first words, their first
steps and their first redirection from unwanted behavior. You child takes and will
continue to take all cues and directions from you.

As a student, your child will also now take cues and directions from his teachers.
So, when mom or dad says, “Work on your letters today with your teacher,” that
is exactly what your child will expect to do. However, his teacher may have other
plans for that day. The child may not have an opportunity to work on his letters that
day. Will this disappoint mom or dad? Does this mean he did not follow directions?

It is very important to work together with your child’s teacher to avoid confusion and to help him understand that mom, dad and teacher are partners working together. If parents give the child an instruction for the classroom that is not followed in the course of his day, the child will be confused. That is why teachers and parents must be consistent in their interactions with the child.

We suggest that the next time you send your child to school, direct him or her to be a good listener and to have fun! This is a great plan for everyone, especially for your child.

Enjoy every moment!
]]>Tue, 14 Sep 2010 17:35:11 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2010/09/encouraging-independence.htmlMaria Montessori says this about a child’s independence:

“The child’s first instinct is to carry out actions by himself, without anyone helping him, and his first conscious bid for independence is made when he defends himself against those who try to do the action for him.”

“I CAN DO IT MYSELF!”

How many times have we heard these words?  Usually we hear them during one of those frantic moments when we need to be somewhere quickly (such as when we are getting our child ready for school).  As teachers, parents and caregivers we need to see that the child’s need for independence does not have a set time or schedule.  So, we should always be prepared for these words.

Here are a few suggestions to help during this wonderful stage when getting ready for school.  First, purchase easy on and off clothing.  Second, pick out clothes the night before.  Third, serve breakfast with specific items each morning (for example, a special bowl and cup for cereal and juice).

Doing these steps allows your child not only to do these things himself, but it enables him to know what will happen next and gives him some control.  This is a great step toward independence.  

Enjoy every moment!]]>Mon, 14 Dec 2009 10:01:08 -0800http://www.cherryhillmontessori.com/1/post/2009/12/pajama-day-success-fun-charitable-giving.htmlMontessori Learning Center's "Pajama Day" was an overwhelming success.   Not only did the children have fun coming to school in their pajamas, but we collected more 74 pairs of pajamas for children in need.     The children were excited to be involved in the spirit of giving.  

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